Things don't always come across in print the way they were meant. If we were all standing together and talking, I'm sure we'd have understood where the other was coming from. All too often I've listened to advice givers who were way off mark, and the more advice they gave, the less credible I found them. I could elaborate, but won't. I wouldn't put you in that category. Your post was long, yes, but full of good advice. The first line of my post was unfortunate, sorry...