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June 14, 1985 - Flag Day ( living on borrowed time )
Twenty years ago today, I set out for a ride I'd never forget.
I had recently dropped out of college, wanted to take a break until september, and had no serious plans until then.
My Father called me around Thanksgiving 1984 and told me he was gearing up to sail the Bahamas for a while, and he was looking for crew.
I grew up sailing the Northeast with my Family, mostly off the coast of New England, between Block Island and the coast of Maine ... many summer weekends were spent driving to Salem or Beverly and sailing the sea.
Summers in the Northeast run too short for most sailors, so my Father moved to Florida in the 1980's, extending his sailing seasons out of Stuart, w*rking as a boat builder to build up the sailing kitty for extended trips.
Sailing the Bahamas for a few months seemed appealing when I was 18, so I decided to join the trip.
We departed West Palm in April 1985, setting our course for Grand Bahama Island, watching the Florida coast disappear as we sailed away from the World ... this first trip was only sixty miles, but five miles from shore we felt like Christopher Columbus, with that unsure feeling that we might be sailing off the edge of the World.
We arrived safely in the Bahamas the next day, and spent the next few months island hopping ... we had a windsurfer onboard, and many times one of us would sail the boat while the other would "race" to the next island, keeping our eyes peeled on the shallow ocean floor.
Sections of the Bahamas' northern island chain, the Abacos, are connected by a plateau that doesn't get much deeper than twenty feet, and the warm water is so clear you could read a book on the ocean floor - we'd sometimes take windsurfer journeys to seek conch crawling along the ocean floor, swim down and grab a few, tie them to the windsurfer's mast for that night's dinner.
We settled in an Abacos harbor of Man-O-War Cay for over a month, making friends with locals and loving life every day!
June 14, 1985 began as a sunny morning - my schedule was wide open, so I decided I'd try to windsurf around the two-mile-long island.
Setting out, I left the tiny harbor, sailing along schools of dolphin, wearing a mile wide smile and enjoying what looked like a perfect day.
When I spotted a large ship anchored about a mile away from Man-O-War Cay, I decided to postpone my trip around the island, to take a closer look at the ship - that decision most likely saved my life.
After circling around the large ship, I headed towards the southern end of Man-O-War Cay, aiming for the mile-wide opening between Man-O-War and a small rock off the shore of Abaco Island.
The winds died, and I was going nowhere fast - I looked over my shoulder and spotted dark ominous clouds on the horizon, which reached me much quicker than I expected.
Soon the wind went from zero to sixty, and I was literally flying on the windsurfer - it took everything I had to stay upright, until the winds picked me and the windsurfer up in the air, out of the water, then slammed me back into the ocean.
The skies opened, down pouring like I've never seen - rain and hail pelted me like an army of paintball soldiers were mad at the World, and taking their anger out on me.
Lightning struck from every direction - non-stop electric fingers everywhere, lighting up dark skies as if it would never stop.
When I could see, it seemed like I was surrounded in a cage of lightning, with dozens of large bolts of lightning getting closer every second.
Enormous waves lifted me as I clung to the windsurfer, hanging on for dear life, slamming me time and again against merciless waves - I tried to hide underwater whenever possible to escape the wind, hail, lightning, and whatever else was in store for me - it felt like "hell on earth"
Some time later - an hour ? much more ? too busy trying to survive to comprehend time - I realized that I was going to die - I was sure of it, knew that I couldn't last much longer, and accepted the fact that my life would soon be over - it's tough to find words to describe that feeling.
Oddly, I was okay with that - thinking about how friends and family would react when they found out that I drowned windsurfing felt worse than thinking that I'd never see another day, never get to experience many of the best things life has to offer.
Visibility sunk to zero - I could not see anything, looking downwind, with my hands cupped around my eyes to shelter them from the hail - I clung to that windsurfer as long as I could, blindly rolling many times while I guzzled gallons of salt water against my will.
Some time later, a very brief pause in the hail gave me the chance to look around and spot something in the distance - I pulled the sail about a foot out of the water, all I could muster with my strength fading, against the still aggressive winds, and it was enough to guide me towards whatever I might have seen in that brief moment.
The hail kicked in again, but I held the sail up as best I could, trying to guide my board towards what I found was that rock sticking out of the water.
If I hadn't spotted that rock and guided my board towards it, I was heading straight out off the Abacos plateau, where waves were over 30 feet high - as tired as I was, I doubt I would have survived.
Waves slammed me against the rock, but I was grateful to be out of the water.
I quickly tied the ropes on the mast and boom to some scrub brush on that tiny rock, slid the board under the sail, and climbed under the sail, collapsing on the board, more exhausted than I've ever been.
Sleep filled my eyes - I drifted off, unsure if I'd ever wake up again, but happy that I wouldn't spend my last moments alive fighting angry weather anymore.
I didn't realize that there were many small boats out searching for me, on the other side of Man-O-War Cay, after my Father had sent out an emergency distress signal on his VHF radio - locals had jumped into action, and risked their lives fighting the storm on a chance that they could rescue me.
Many said it was the worst storm they'd seen, that they feared for their lives in their boats, and that they watched their anemometers peg out at over 100 MPH
When I woke some time later, I crawled out from beneath my sail and found myself surrounded by a gorgeous sunny day, not a cloud to be seen for miles.
A small boat approached my rock and offered me a ride back to the harbor.
I thanked them for the offer but refused, intending to sail the mile or so back into the harbor - when I tried to stand up and collapsed, with zero energy left, the captain of the small boat laughed and told me to get in the boat.
He dropped me off at my Father's boat, the Endurance, and I was happy to be "home" ... I called my Father on the VHF, poured myself a stiff rum drink, then retired to bed for some well-earned rest.
We found out that day why they call it the "Devil's Triangle"
http://skepdic.com/bermuda.html
It's been twenty years since that wicked storm almost claimed my life.
I call my Father every year on june 14 and we chat about the good times we've shared, remembering that day and many others - it's a tradition that helps us each appreciate life.
No calendar required to let me know when it's time to celebrate Father's Day or Mother's Day - I love my Parents and I'm grateful for everything they've done to help me grow into who I am today!
Twenty years ago today, I set out for a ride I'd never forget.
I had recently dropped out of college, wanted to take a break until september, and had no serious plans until then.
My Father called me around Thanksgiving 1984 and told me he was gearing up to sail the Bahamas for a while, and he was looking for crew.
I grew up sailing the Northeast with my Family, mostly off the coast of New England, between Block Island and the coast of Maine ... many summer weekends were spent driving to Salem or Beverly and sailing the sea.
Summers in the Northeast run too short for most sailors, so my Father moved to Florida in the 1980's, extending his sailing seasons out of Stuart, w*rking as a boat builder to build up the sailing kitty for extended trips.
Sailing the Bahamas for a few months seemed appealing when I was 18, so I decided to join the trip.
We departed West Palm in April 1985, setting our course for Grand Bahama Island, watching the Florida coast disappear as we sailed away from the World ... this first trip was only sixty miles, but five miles from shore we felt like Christopher Columbus, with that unsure feeling that we might be sailing off the edge of the World.
We arrived safely in the Bahamas the next day, and spent the next few months island hopping ... we had a windsurfer onboard, and many times one of us would sail the boat while the other would "race" to the next island, keeping our eyes peeled on the shallow ocean floor.
Sections of the Bahamas' northern island chain, the Abacos, are connected by a plateau that doesn't get much deeper than twenty feet, and the warm water is so clear you could read a book on the ocean floor - we'd sometimes take windsurfer journeys to seek conch crawling along the ocean floor, swim down and grab a few, tie them to the windsurfer's mast for that night's dinner.
We settled in an Abacos harbor of Man-O-War Cay for over a month, making friends with locals and loving life every day!
June 14, 1985 began as a sunny morning - my schedule was wide open, so I decided I'd try to windsurf around the two-mile-long island.
Setting out, I left the tiny harbor, sailing along schools of dolphin, wearing a mile wide smile and enjoying what looked like a perfect day.
When I spotted a large ship anchored about a mile away from Man-O-War Cay, I decided to postpone my trip around the island, to take a closer look at the ship - that decision most likely saved my life.
After circling around the large ship, I headed towards the southern end of Man-O-War Cay, aiming for the mile-wide opening between Man-O-War and a small rock off the shore of Abaco Island.
The winds died, and I was going nowhere fast - I looked over my shoulder and spotted dark ominous clouds on the horizon, which reached me much quicker than I expected.
Soon the wind went from zero to sixty, and I was literally flying on the windsurfer - it took everything I had to stay upright, until the winds picked me and the windsurfer up in the air, out of the water, then slammed me back into the ocean.
The skies opened, down pouring like I've never seen - rain and hail pelted me like an army of paintball soldiers were mad at the World, and taking their anger out on me.
Lightning struck from every direction - non-stop electric fingers everywhere, lighting up dark skies as if it would never stop.
When I could see, it seemed like I was surrounded in a cage of lightning, with dozens of large bolts of lightning getting closer every second.
Enormous waves lifted me as I clung to the windsurfer, hanging on for dear life, slamming me time and again against merciless waves - I tried to hide underwater whenever possible to escape the wind, hail, lightning, and whatever else was in store for me - it felt like "hell on earth"
Some time later - an hour ? much more ? too busy trying to survive to comprehend time - I realized that I was going to die - I was sure of it, knew that I couldn't last much longer, and accepted the fact that my life would soon be over - it's tough to find words to describe that feeling.
Oddly, I was okay with that - thinking about how friends and family would react when they found out that I drowned windsurfing felt worse than thinking that I'd never see another day, never get to experience many of the best things life has to offer.
Visibility sunk to zero - I could not see anything, looking downwind, with my hands cupped around my eyes to shelter them from the hail - I clung to that windsurfer as long as I could, blindly rolling many times while I guzzled gallons of salt water against my will.
Some time later, a very brief pause in the hail gave me the chance to look around and spot something in the distance - I pulled the sail about a foot out of the water, all I could muster with my strength fading, against the still aggressive winds, and it was enough to guide me towards whatever I might have seen in that brief moment.
The hail kicked in again, but I held the sail up as best I could, trying to guide my board towards what I found was that rock sticking out of the water.
If I hadn't spotted that rock and guided my board towards it, I was heading straight out off the Abacos plateau, where waves were over 30 feet high - as tired as I was, I doubt I would have survived.
Waves slammed me against the rock, but I was grateful to be out of the water.
I quickly tied the ropes on the mast and boom to some scrub brush on that tiny rock, slid the board under the sail, and climbed under the sail, collapsing on the board, more exhausted than I've ever been.
Sleep filled my eyes - I drifted off, unsure if I'd ever wake up again, but happy that I wouldn't spend my last moments alive fighting angry weather anymore.
I didn't realize that there were many small boats out searching for me, on the other side of Man-O-War Cay, after my Father had sent out an emergency distress signal on his VHF radio - locals had jumped into action, and risked their lives fighting the storm on a chance that they could rescue me.
Many said it was the worst storm they'd seen, that they feared for their lives in their boats, and that they watched their anemometers peg out at over 100 MPH
When I woke some time later, I crawled out from beneath my sail and found myself surrounded by a gorgeous sunny day, not a cloud to be seen for miles.
A small boat approached my rock and offered me a ride back to the harbor.
I thanked them for the offer but refused, intending to sail the mile or so back into the harbor - when I tried to stand up and collapsed, with zero energy left, the captain of the small boat laughed and told me to get in the boat.
He dropped me off at my Father's boat, the Endurance, and I was happy to be "home" ... I called my Father on the VHF, poured myself a stiff rum drink, then retired to bed for some well-earned rest.
We found out that day why they call it the "Devil's Triangle"
http://skepdic.com/bermuda.html
It's been twenty years since that wicked storm almost claimed my life.
I call my Father every year on june 14 and we chat about the good times we've shared, remembering that day and many others - it's a tradition that helps us each appreciate life.
No calendar required to let me know when it's time to celebrate Father's Day or Mother's Day - I love my Parents and I'm grateful for everything they've done to help me grow into who I am today!
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