Kevin Rooney
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That is sad, especially because his friends did as he asked and went ahead without him. I've asked friends to leave me behind when I've had an off day on the trail. I've seen people lagging behind their faster-paced friends. How do we gauge when that is not a good idea, or do we just assume it never is wise?
I am going to be harshly judgmental about this.
This is a prime example of why parties never should leave members -- and particularly single members -- behind, unattended. Never. Start together, stay together, finish together. Period. It is called working as a team.
G.
Agreed. Don't bother hiking with a group in the first place if you only want to hike your pace. I have a huge amount of respect for strong hikers who stay with a group and sometimes break trail most of the way.
I am going to be harshly judgmental about this.
This is a prime example of why parties never should leave members -- and particularly single members -- behind, unattended. Never. Start together, stay together, finish together. Period. It is called working as a team.
G.
When they become part of a group, strong hikers take on an ethical obligation to support the weaker members of their party. That may mean adjusting their pace to accommodate their companions' needs. While I don't believe that weaker hikers should deliberately inflict themselves on the stronger, once the party is formed, it must remain intact, as a team. Period.
By the way, while there are moral-ethical dimensions to my "rule" (a very old, old-fashion rule and traditional, by the way) there also is a practical aspect of it, as well. You never really know when you -- yourself -- suddenly will become the weak link, and find yourself in need of support.
I stand four-square for the idea of personal independence, in hiking and other aspects of life. I reject self-centerdness, however.
G.
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Also bear in mind that it is unlikely that the outcome would have been different even if they stayed with him if this is as suspected, a cardiac event. A sad but unfortunate fact being so far from definitive care and the extended time until first responders could arrive.
Keith
... I also try to identify weak hikers [i.e., unfit] early on who might excessively slow down the group and ask that they turnaround because they can compromise the safety of the group as well.
I've thought about that. Certainly the outcome might not have changed. That is reality. But where lies the humanity -- basic moral decency -- in leaving a companion alongside the trail, not out of necessity but of choice, possibly to die alone as did this poor chap?
G.
I don't know -- every time I go for a hike / run with Jason Ferris I'm about a mile behind, never thought it was a problem. Do you have an issue with this?Number two, always. Seen too many instances where number one was the wrong choice.
OK, and what % of time are men just having a bad day vs actually having a heart attack? I've turned around on a bad day and told my friends to go ahead. I never thought this was an issue. We're all adults, regardless, and the individual has the right to make their own decision...What's probably most important to reiterate here is what Blue mentioned -- men having heart attacks often deny they are having heart attacks, and will minimize the problem and say something to the effect of no, I'm just <tired / having a bad day / suffering indigestion / dehydrated / zapped from last night / whatever>, go on ahead without me.
Give me a break. I'm ok with my friends going ahead -- even miles -- and I'm ok with others lagging behind. Are you going to tell me this is somehow wrong? Even if I'm in a group, I'm responsible for myself just as everyone else, in the end, is responsible for their own well being.This is a prime example of why parties never should leave members -- and particularly single members -- behind, unattended. Never. Start together, stay together, finish together. Period. It is called working as a team.
I understand what you are saying having attended enough end of life events to last me the rest of my life. Absolutely no pun intended. But, if the person is of legal age with intact faculties they have a right to determine their fate. I can suggest things to them, I can strongly suggest things to them and even as a last resort I can and have just stood around without their permission, just in case. An unconscious patient is a treatable patient under the law of implied consent. But, if conscious, without explicit consent they are in charge of their fate unless 1. they have given some written consent like should be obtained in an organized trip or 2. they are unconscious or 3. they are not reliable (i.e. altered mentally) or 4. not of legal age without parent present.
If it was not in an organized trip and they didn’t suspect any serious underlying condition, I would not find fault with what they did and personally have no issue with what they did.
I do feel very bad for them and their friend. 46 is too young to die.
Keith
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Give me a break. I'm ok with my friends going ahead -- even miles -- and I'm ok with others lagging behind. Are you going to tell me this is somehow wrong? Even if I'm in a group, I'm responsible for myself just as everyone else, in the end, is responsible for their own well being.
-Dr. Wu
I think that best expresses my feelings.If it was not in an organized trip and they didn’t suspect any serious underlying condition, I would not find fault with what they did and personally have no issue with what they did.
I do feel very bad for them and their friend. 46 is too young to die.
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