This thread has turned into quite a discussion, and I’ve enjoyed it.
Having raised the issue of the old group hiking rule, “start, stay and finish together” I’ll add a comment on the application of it, and maybe rules in general.
First, though, let’s look at the Hiker Responsibility Code, as it appears on the
http://www.hikesafe.com/ web site:
Hiker Responsibility Code
You are responsible for yourself, so be prepared:
1. With knowledge and gear. Become self reliant by learning about the terrain, conditions, local weather and your equipment before you start.
2. To leave your plans. Tell someone where you are going, the trails you are hiking, when you will return and your emergency plans.
3. To stay together. When you start as a group, hike as a group, end as a group. Pace your hike to the slowest person.
4. To turn back. Weather changes quickly in the mountains. Fatigue and unexpected conditions can also affect your hike. Know your limitations and when to postpone your hike. The mountains will be there another day.
5. For emergencies. Even if you are headed out for just an hour, an injury, severe weather or a wrong turn could become life threatening. Don’t assume you will be rescued; know how to rescue yourself.
6. To share the hiker code with others.
hikeSafe: It’s Your Responsibility.
The Hiker Responsibility Code was developed and is endorsed by the White Mountain National Forest and New Hampshire Fish and Game.
Please note item 3 in that short list. This is not an appeal to authority. It is mentioned to illustrate that my belief is not distanced from mainstream thinking.
The idea of a “bright line” to guide decision making has been mentioned somewhere along the line in this discussion, maybe more than once. How do you really know when your companion, who says, “go on head, I’ll be OK,” is really in distress or not? What’s the “bright line” of his/her distress or situation that tells you to stick with your teammate?
Actually, the rule is our bright line.
It serves as a check rein on impulses. We are about to leave our panting companion, just for a little while to go on and bag the summit, and then we bump up against the rule. It causes us to pause, take a serious, more reasoned and less impulsive second look at our choices and the situation and our pending decision.
That really is what most rules are about.
Not things to be followed slavishly, as many have pointed out or argued. But rules serve as bright lines defining the appropriate default decision in a given situation – the decision that may or may not actually be necessary or even obviously indicated (or optimum, or even "best"), but at the same time never, ever will be the wrong or harmful or regrettable choice to take.
On to other matters …
Custehunk posted, above:
The "never split up once you start up the trail" group is applying a hard-and-fast rule that only applies in the context of being out in nature. This sort of rule seems to arise from the mindset that nature is separate from everyday life, and fundamentally different.
The "split up based on context" group is applying to hiking essentially the same standard that gets applied most everywhere else in life. This seems to arise from a sense that being out in nature is not fundamentally different from the rest of our everyday world.
I don’t think this is true at all. I apply the same concept of team to my everyday life as I do to hiking in groups. My career working as a news photographer covering all sorts of events certainly put me on a team. I sure as shootin’ worked diligently to never leave the word guys stranded without the full support of my services. It is a matter of professional obligation. It requires self-reliance and understanding, personal initiative, self discipline and, sometimes, the willingness and ability to go where my personal impulses and conveniences don’t take me.
Same applies to my now nearly 42-year marriage with Mrs. (Pretty) Grumpy. Hey, we long have operated separately, at times. For years, Mrs. G reluctantly ceded to my wish to hike alone, understanding that if something dire happened to me out there, sadness was OK but there was to be no anger or regret. And I’ll tell you what: Never has there been doubt between us that the other has his/her back. Tough times and good times, we’ve hung in there, honoring that long ago pledge to start, stay and finish together. It’s been a life of commitment, and not a bad one, by any means.
A closing thought.
Anybody who can wear a silly chicken hat and still retain a sense of personal dignity is somebody whose comments are worth attending to. So Dave Metsky gets the nod this time:
And those of us who split up when the group is in agreement and we feel the situation makes it acceptable are sometimes labeled irrational as well. There's room in this world for all of us to enjoy the out of doors.
Hike your own hike, and/or the hike of your group ethic. It's all good.
I couldn’t agree more with that last comment. Except to add, please do it responsibly.
G.