Grumpy
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I’ll rephrase my earlier remarks, with commentary.
Taking care to not interfere with someone else’s legal and legitimate enjoyment of shared ground is not conceding anything to them. It is common courtesy and something of a neccesity if we are to maintain a civil society. Courtesy begets courtesy. Rudeness, resentment and animosity breeds rudeness, resentment and animosity in return. What all this adds up to is that ordinary courtesy serves our own best interests as well as those of others. It’s just plain smart living.
Wearing bright colors so you’re readily visible to hunters while traipsing through the woods, is no “concession” to hunters. It’s looking out for yourself, and that makes it just plain smart.
Avoiding situations or places when and where others (hunters, in this case) are doing something perfectly legal and legit but that makes you uncomfortable -- irrespective of whether or not your discomfort is rational -- is not “making a concession” either. It’s just bending to your own quirks.
Wearing a seat belt when you drive your car is not “making a concession” to idiot drivers (the other guys). The nanny-staters have decided to make it mandatory by law, but that doesn’t negate the simple fact that wearning a seat belt protects your own interests and is just plain smart.
Doing that which best serves your own well being and your own quirks of preference is no concession to anyone else. It is a matter of choice -- your own choice. You need do none of the things given as examples above, or you may elect to do some or all of those things and many others. You may experience unhappy consequences if you choose poorly. But that's your problem.
Suggesting that the other guy somehow is getting greater “consideration” than you receive because you have such choices to make is to torture reason.
G.
Taking care to not interfere with someone else’s legal and legitimate enjoyment of shared ground is not conceding anything to them. It is common courtesy and something of a neccesity if we are to maintain a civil society. Courtesy begets courtesy. Rudeness, resentment and animosity breeds rudeness, resentment and animosity in return. What all this adds up to is that ordinary courtesy serves our own best interests as well as those of others. It’s just plain smart living.
Wearing bright colors so you’re readily visible to hunters while traipsing through the woods, is no “concession” to hunters. It’s looking out for yourself, and that makes it just plain smart.
Avoiding situations or places when and where others (hunters, in this case) are doing something perfectly legal and legit but that makes you uncomfortable -- irrespective of whether or not your discomfort is rational -- is not “making a concession” either. It’s just bending to your own quirks.
Wearing a seat belt when you drive your car is not “making a concession” to idiot drivers (the other guys). The nanny-staters have decided to make it mandatory by law, but that doesn’t negate the simple fact that wearning a seat belt protects your own interests and is just plain smart.
Doing that which best serves your own well being and your own quirks of preference is no concession to anyone else. It is a matter of choice -- your own choice. You need do none of the things given as examples above, or you may elect to do some or all of those things and many others. You may experience unhappy consequences if you choose poorly. But that's your problem.
Suggesting that the other guy somehow is getting greater “consideration” than you receive because you have such choices to make is to torture reason.
G.