Is greeting other folks on trail with "Hi!" part of hiking etiquette?

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Argh.

Just for a counterpoint: I do not hike to meet people. I do not like saying "Hi!" dozen's of times. I have no interest in striking up a conversation with anybody. I will, however, be polite respond to greetings. I also help others when needed, answer pertinent questions, etc., etc..

I like to hike solo - just me and the mountain - regardless of how many other people are on the trail...

I do not pass judgement on others, and I prefer to not be judged (but this is 'Merica, so WhatChaGonnaDo?).

So there. Take that, all you friendly meet and greet people. Shoo.

Other sins of mine include using a GPS on every hike (gasp!) and listening to music via ear buds (oh yes, I go there). Oh, and hiking solo at night. I think that makes me the most evil hiker on the trail ever (imagine evil laugh here).

Can't a guy just go for a nice, quiet hike?
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Geez, I feel more extroverted that I thought. I have almost always said a quick hello to passing hikers, it just seems rude to pretend they're not there. To me, it's pretty obvious if they want to keep moving (i.e., they keep moving :) ) or talk a bit. Matters not to me, but if you totally ignore my hello, I do see that as rude.

Notable exception is on the way out of the Lincoln Woods Trail, which is usually late in the afternoon, so it's clearly just the throngs heading to the falls (no backpacks, no water, so late in the afternoon I wonder how they heck they're getting out before dark, etc.). I generally notice a different tone on the few occasions I have tried to be congenial, like I'm a man from Mars saying Ack! Ack ack!

Guess I'll be good in Europe, I've been drooling over Triglav in Slovenia lately. :D
 
Notable exception is on the way out of the Lincoln Woods Trail, which is usually late in the afternoon, so it's clearly just the throngs heading to the falls (no backpacks, no water, so late in the afternoon I wonder how they heck they're getting out before dark, etc.). I generally notice a different tone on the few occasions I have tried to be congenial, like I'm a man from Mars saying Ack! Ack ack!

Zealand Trail suffers the same phenomenon. "Rudest" trail in the Whites. LW is in close competition, though.
 
If I'm hiking along watching where I place my feet and someone coming the other way is doing the same thing and the trail is wide enough for us to pass, then I probably won't say anything. If the trail is narrow and one of us (or both of us) stops to let the other pass, then I'll usually say something. If I get a response, and I haven't seen many people on the hike, then I may have a short conversation.
 
I always say hi when on the trail. My son remarked on me saying that I am the most social antisocial :) I happily say hi yet afterwards I'm seldom interested in detailed conversation :)
 
Geez, I feel more extroverted that I thought. I have almost always said a quick hello to passing hikers, it just seems rude to pretend they're not there. To me, it's pretty obvious if they want to keep moving (i.e., they keep moving :) ) or talk a bit. Matters not to me, but if you totally ignore my hello, I do see that as rude.

Not pretending you are not there. Not being rude. Look up introverted, and try to understand that constant greetings can be a real problem. Some people just want to enjoy the hike, the trees, the air, the rocks, the gray-jays....

I reply to greetings (usually with a grunt after a few hours into the hike), lest I be branded as a bad person. More than once I have considered printing a placard that I can point to that says "Hi!" just so I can go about my hike in peace. I'm definitely in the minority here, but not alone.

As an introvert, I can not understand why I need to constantly exchange greetings with other hikers (unless there is a problem) - but that is OK. I work as well as I can within the expected social norms. People are different, and that is OK.
 
This is going to vary widely from individual to individual, and not even consistently with the same individual. Exhaustion and low blood sugar do change behavior, ya know.

I think that setting an expectation is pointless, and not getting the response from another hiker that you had hoped you would get is also pointless.

However, after many years of hiking, my experience is that the most frequent, and warmest, and most genuine greetings occur on winter hikes among passing individuals or very small groups.
 
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