In my relatively short "serious hiking phase" of the past 6 years or so I just started off hiking more. Having done the same stuff over the years I started half heartedly following the 48 4k list to try new areas. Figured it would be cool to do the 10 tallest peaks, then it was 20....That quickly evolved into an obsession as I saw more areas I had never seen and wanted to see more. Finished the list in about 13 months. Then I went back to favorites, climbing via all the possible routes, then began other lists (like a "ravine trail" list, etc). Then there was Winter hiking and a new 48 4k list. In Summer it became about "epic" hikes, covering as many miles as I could, how many summits could I hit, more vertical, etc, etc. I suppose that is just a natural progression of being in better shape and able to do more. And of course detailed data saved of everything.
The past few years though I have soured quite a bit on the "lists" and numerical goals. I have 44 of 48 done on my Winter list (Zealand, Isolation, Jefferson and Adams left) and while nearly done I find myself having no desire to finish it. I can't wait to do Jefferson and Adams. I have no desire whatsoever to do Zealand or Isolation. Just don't care. Those hikes don't excite me at all. I think the biggest thing over the past several years is seeing so many people out in the woods doing lists, climbing peaks just to check something off the list, taking the shortest possible routes, going when the trails are well packed out, etc and going straight to social media talking about what bad ***** they are for "crushing Tecumseh". And lately it seems to be all about trail running and speed. Seems like everyone references a time when they post their hikes. Quite frankly the "accomplishment" of most of these lists is not terribly impressive. Anyone in somewhat reasonble shape can endure some discomfort and bang these lists out. Just look at a lot of the people you see out there. Even high end goals are becoming a bit of a farce like Everest. It has become an issue of finances, where you can fly into base camp now in a helicopter, pay people to handle all your gear, carry your stuff and drag you up the mountain. That doesn't impress me. The lists certainly sparked the flame that got me going but completion of lists is not my ultimate motivation. Imagining myself as one of these people is nauseating to me now actually.
So on the heels of my biggest hiking season to date last year (did about 44 hikes covering 500 miles - not much for many here but a BIG year for me - still making comparisons and referencing numbers
) I find myself revisiting why I am hiking in the first place. I like the physical challenges and hardships, the "process" of planning the route/selecting gear/etc and most importantly the views. I often skip summits now on hikes because they are too crowded and venture into lesser used areas. If I do the entire Gulfside Trail and don't summit a single peak I don't really care. I'm getting out much earlier or starting much later in search of more solitude and more dramatic views. I usually have a general "list" (I guess there is no avoiding it 100%) of stuff I want to do and each week I'll kick around a few ideas in my head until something grabs my enthusiasm and that is what I do. No check marks. No feeling of disappointment that I didn't summit anything. I had a lot of stuff on this "list" that I didn't get done last year and it doesn't bother me at all. Had a lot of great hikes, many of which were not on my radar until the idea hit me that prior week. This is how I imagine I'll hike for the rest of my life. No lists. Just experiences and skill building for even richer experiences.
So I think that is a longwinded way of saying I don't think you need any kind of list as long as the "pull" of the mountains still makes you want to get out there. Something will catch your fancy and keep you loading up the car each week. Who cares if anyone else is impressed with it, you were 30 minutes slower than someone else or there is no patch for it. Was your hike fun and satisfying to YOU? Mission accomplished.