spaddock said:
Where I see it getting elitist is if you were to turn down somebody who replied they would like to go after having read all the info. It would be like not getting picked for baseball at recess. But I know what you're saying about different abilities. If you really want to bag those 4 peaks it's a bummer if you have to turn around because of slower people in the group.
DISCLAIMER:
- Spaddock, it is going to sound like I am going off on you, I'm not. I agree with your statement above. I'm just generally spewing below...
It appears to be a difficult issue. Hikes posted here are informal. That's why one needs to set expectations in trip descriptions. Believe me, I don't enjoy turning people away at the trailhead. I have yet to do so.
However, all of my leading experience, except for two trips with VFFT, have been in organized clubs.
Being a graduate of AMC's OLTP, I truly value the importance leadership and a team approach to group outings.
Posting the hike, and setting expectations and screening as best as one can are the only way to ensure that everyone has the best chance for an enjoyable trip. People do this stuff to enjoy themselves and have fun.
Hypothetical: (Not really because it did happen to me) I was on a trip once, an organized trip. It was a snowshoes required trip. If you didn't have snowshoes, you were not going to leave the trialhead with the group. One individual decided, even though he brought along his snowshoes. To leave the trailhead last, when everyone was out of site, he put his snowshoes back in his car. Well, we needed the snowshoes much later in the day, and when we got to camp, we asked him why he wasn't wearing his snowshoes, he said he left them in the car. He had a very large pack, none of us suspected he left them behind because we saw him with them at the trailhead.
Well, one of the participants became ill, we had to rush him out the next day as quickly as possible as a hospital visit was required. We had to wait an inordinate amount of time, almost two hours, for the snowshoe-less individual to make it back to the trailhead. As we needed his car to be able to get the sick one into treatment. It was very cold, single digits all day, it was a bad scene.
What if, one self (not you specifically spaddock) knew when starting out on a hike, that another individual that showed up was poorly prepared and inexperienced and would put everyone at risk or ensure a bad time and on top of that you knew that if this individual attempted to go all or part of the trip alone, they would be in over their heads?
Now, 3/4's of the year, this scene may have more options. In the winter time, things can go bad very quckly.
I would have no problem telling the individual, "Sorry, I'm not going walking with you today in these conditions. You can do what you want to. I suggest you go home. I am leaving this trailhead without you and I hope I don't read about you in the paper on Tuesday."
I am sounding really hard line and I am not hard line.
90% of the time, even with informal trips organized here on VFFT, this is not an issue.
But, sometimes, every once in a while, it happens where you have to be smart and selective. It's not discrimination. Look, I want to have a good time. Life is short and all that other stuff. I want my time in the outdoors to be quality time so I can get back to the "real world" refreshed and happy. Playing with my 3 year old kid and enjoying my wife's company etc...
If telling someone they can't go on a trip because I don't think it is a good fit for them (for various possible reasons) AND it is my honest assesment AND meant to be for their own good and the groups good as well as my own, I'm good with that.
There will be pleny of other enjoyable trips in that persons future, I'm sure.