Woe is definitely me
I am usually happy to be hiking at booktime and am usually slower. Since mostly everyone hikes faster than me, I tend to hike my pace and just chat with whomever is there at the time. I have "hiked with" lots of people at varying abilities and speeds and the conversation and friendships formed are a far better judge for me than speeds and abilities. For instance, one would agree that few are faster or in better shape than Frodo and some of my best times have been skiing and hiking with him. However, the conversation lying on a frozen pond where keeping up with him is not required was even better.
A given day, a given hike, a given trail, a given goal and each companions particular physical and mental state can ALL determine hiking compatibility so it is very subjective and to each their own, it is all fun as long as we are out there and not in front of these computers, right?
sli74