We have a 97 Legacy Outback with 140k+ miles. We bought it because it felt so much better to drive (to us) than competing SUVs. Now after 14 years:
Good things: AWD, gas mileage, reliability, sure-footedness
Bad things: a bit noisy, less "refined" interior
The new Outbacks are much quieter and have more internal amenities. And, despite being supersized recently, you can get a 2010 with a 2.5L/CVT that gets better gas mileage than our smaller 97. The Outback and Forester are #1 and #2 on the short list when/if we get a new car.
The biggest downside I see with Subaru is that they generally don't have the newest technology. It took years to get a CVT and it isn't available on a Forester yet. They don't have a hybrid option. VSC lagged competitors.
Edit: Just read the thread Puma concolor listed. This is probably obvious, but these are station wagons by a different name. Service of our car was 95% on paved roads, in southern NH. Snow, logging, and fire roads, but no 4x4 roads. No plowing, no towing. And as much as I used to enjoy quick cornering on dirt roads, a few close calls (think: deer, washouts, other cars) cured me of that.