So when I hike solo, do I have a fool for a leader or do I have anarchy in a group of one?
A grandfather and two grandsons, ages 19 and 14, is not an organized hike with a leader.
When I started, I was not looking at finding an organized group or leader to help. (Possible TMI warning) I was a 29 year old who had walked in the local woods hunting without getting lost and had done some local in town trails. A divorce led to realizing I hadn't really been anywhere, other people had done State Capitals, Ballparks, etc. I liked the walking in hunting but grew to dislike the rest of it. I had started with State Highpoints, however the woman who would become my current wife was more important than the High Point of IA, IL, IN, FL, etc. I loved the new hobby, so I just stayed in the Northeast. I started on the trips that likely wouldn't kill me. (RI, MA, VT, ME, CT, NH, NY)
On my first Washington trip, I was just back in the trees on Lion's Head when a grandfather and two grandchildren passed me on the way up. Granddad was in his mid 60's and the two boys were not 19, closer to 14. Ten minutes later, one of the boys ran past me saying his grandfather had fallen. Like I said, I'm glad this had a happy ending, it's a little too deja vu for me.
Small groups of friends don't think of a walk in the whites from late Spring to pre-labor day hikes as something requiring rules what-if scenarios' etc. If they have just a little experience, they haven't thought about lost of visibility or multiple trails at junctions. Those of us in the choir know better, now, we did not always know.
So much is available on-line, people can say they researched the hike on-line & that means nothing. (The old days if they said that they read the intro and the trail pages in the WMG, you know what they read) How many meet-up groups, Facebook groups and Instagram pages reference Washington? (1,000's? more?) Warnings probably range from WMG-like to we came, we saw, we kicked it's butt, it was easy, everyone should do it.