Welch-but-not-Dickey, May 9, 2009 (family hike)

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TrishandAlex

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Cut and pasted from "Sage's" very pink hiking blog: http://sagehikes.blogspot.com

Accompanying pictures can be found there.
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4 miles, up to Welch and back down the way we came (dark and scary clouds prevented us from continuing on toward Dickey).

For Mother's Day, I requested we hike the Welch-Dickey loop. Unfortunately, the forecast for Sunday predicted cold, very windy weather -- so we opted to hike the day before Mother's Day instead.

Sat was a comfortable day. In the 60s, not too warm, not too cold. We set off feeling fine.

The girls ran happily along the trail...

...and eventually decided to hike holding hands.

We took a short break 1 mile in. Then the sibling issues started...sigh. Whenever Alex and I hike together, she acts almost grown up. Whenever Sage and I hang out alone together, SHE acts almost grown up. But put the two of them together and go out....and then they very much act their ages. I went ahead about 15 feet with Sage while Alex hiked with Hugh, and then everyone chilled out and the hike was happy once again.

We had two unfortunate dog encounters about 10 minutes later. The first one involved a large dog that ran ahead of its owner and jumped around Sage. Sage was frightened and started screaming. The dog seemed friendly, but the owner never called his dog back. It was obvious my kid was terrified, but the owner didn't control his dog, he just hiked along without a word of apology or acknowledgement -- I had to get close to Sage and protect her from this animal's over-enthusiastic jumps while she shrieked. After they left, Sage said shakily that the owner was a BAD owner. I couldn't disagree. It's really not okay for even "always friendly" dogs to jump all over very frightened little children.

The second encounter happened just minutes afterward. Two guys with a happy-looking dog came down the trail. They stopped a fair bit away from us and leashed their dog when they saw us coming. Sage and I passed after exchanging a few pleasant comments about the day. We walked onward about 15 feet, then I looked back and saw that Hugh and Alex had stopped by the dog. I saw Alex ask if she could pet it, and the owners smiled and said yes.

She reached forward, and the dog growled and lunged at her. It came within a centimeter of biting her face. It got her hair instead - Hugh and the owners leapt forward and got the dog off of her. The owners looked mortified and kept apologizing over and over. Hugh said a tense word or two, the owners looked miserable and truly upset over the incident. They swore their dog was usually very friendly. I believed them, they looked just plain bewildered and horrified.

Alex stood there, rooted to the spot, staring straight ahead in a daze. I called to her several times before she looked up and moved forward, zombie-like. The owners went on ahead, still looking shocked, and I spoke with Alex when she and Hugh had caught up with me. Her feelings were hurt, she didn't understand why the dog had done that to her, she was taking it very personally. I explained that sometimes dogs were unpredictable, and that she had not done anything wrong. She was upset about this for a while, and said she didn't want to pet dogs anymore, ever. I've a feeling her sentiment will change over time, after the shock of this incident wears off a bit.

We continued our hike in silence, moving forward, climbing over stone stairs...

and reaching the don't-trample-the-vegetation sign.

We hiked on and soon arrived at the nice scenic ledge. I took a picture of the Tripyramids in the distance.

We took a break here and rested. Alex appeared to be her usual self again.

We could see the summit of Welch, about .6 miles away..

The lady in the above picture graciously offered to take a family photo.

After some cheese and crackers, we continued onward, up the ledges. On the way up, I turned and took a picture of the spot where we had just rested (the patch of rock down below).

From here, Sage and I went on ahead while Alex and Hugh hiked behind. We reached the summit a few minutes before they did, and I snapped a couple pictures of Sage.

We looked over the rocks and saw Alex and Hugh approaching.

Alex reached the summit....

...and then Hugh. It was time for a chocolate break.

We sat and discussed our options. The sky looked terrible. There were dark clouds overhead, everywhere. There was a tiny patch of blue sky that looked like it was headed our way, but we thought the situation could go either way. If we went forward toward Dickey, we'd have 1.5 miles to go before we were back down in the shelter of the trees. If we went back the way we came, we'd have only .7 miles before we were protected. These ledges would be dangerously slippery if it were to rain. We therefore decided to just do the safest thing and go back the way we came -- we'll save Dickey for another day.

I took a picture of Dickey's peak and its ledges...another time, mister mountain.

We began our descent -- and within a few minutes I dropped my camera. I had just dropped it on Bald Mountain a few weeks ago. It had survived that accident...but barely. This time was just too much. It didn't work the rest of the trip, so I couldn't take any more pictures. Maybe I can get it to eventually recover, but probably not, I think I killed it this time. Drat.

The way down was routine. However, Sage began to complain of fatigue about a mile from the car. She did the entire hike on her own two feet, and I made the last bit of hiking as fun as I could for her by singing silly songs. However, for this year I think I'll keep future hikes to 3 miles and under. I want her to have fun and enjoy the process, and not feel pushed in any way.

Happy Mother's Day, everyone!
 
Trish, as always, an excellent TR . . . but so sorry to read that your children (and your camera!) suffered some trauma on this hike.
 
Thanks -- I'm sure the kids will bounce back from the dog encounters. 99% of the dogs we see on the trails are great, and have wonderful owners.

My camera though....not so sure that will recover. Worse things can happen though.
 
Nice trip report - Welch (and Dickey) is a nice hike (though you can get similar hikes without the crowds if you know where to look (*cough* Ossipees *cough*)).

She reached forward, and the dog growled and lunged at her. It came within a centimeter of biting her face.

I'm not Cesar Millan, but I wonder if her walking stick had to do with the reaction. I've seen some otherwise calm dogs come unglued when they see objects that conjure up bad memories.
 
Nice trip report - Welch (and Dickey) is a nice hike (though you can get similar hikes without the crowds if you know where to look (*cough* Ossipees *cough*)).

I'm not Cesar Millan, but I wonder if her walking stick had to do with the reaction. I've seen some otherwise calm dogs come unglued when they see objects that conjure up bad memories.

Jeremy, the Ossipees are on our list, believe me. ;)

The walking stick -- that's an idea we hadn't thought of. Hmmm. Maybe it had been adopted from a shelter and had a past the owners weren't aware of, one that involved abusive sticks (with owners)..? One of many possibilities, I suppose.
 
Great TR as always.
As for the dogs: There are good AND bad owners out there. The 1st encounter was a 'bad owner' The second, well they had the animal on a leash, and maybe the hiking stick did freak the dog out. I have a yellow lab who was beaten up by the "alpha male" in the family we adopted him from. The best dog in the world....unless he sees another dog. If not properly introduced, he will go at it. We do not ever take him hiking because of this. I hike with my other 2 dogs, who seem to like everyone, but I keep them on a leash.
As for the camera:Olympus Stylus; I have beaten the crap out of this thing, dropped it, sat on it, scraped it against rocks, and though a bit dented, It handles all the abuse I can give it. It is waterproof too.
Hike on,
Sandy
 
Posting as a hiker-with-hiking-dog, there's no excuse for the behavior of the owners of the first dog. Bad owners indeed -- it really bothers me that such people tend to give all hikers with dogs a bad name. Very occasionally, Tuckerman and meet people on the trail who feel it necessary to lecture us about the behavior of *all* trail dogs. I assume they've had a bad encounter or two and leave it at that.

As for the second dog, sometimes dog behavior is inexplicable, and I sympathize with the owners as well as with Alex's father (in their place I would've reacted just as they did, with profuse apologies and, if I was dad, with anger). My worry is Alex, though. It'll be some time before she's over this episode, I fear. A dog attack is nightmare-terrifying for kids.
 
Welch Without Dickey

Trish,
A first rate report on your family outing. It's a shame Alex and Sage were overwhelmed by the dog encounters, but I am sure they are resilient and will bounce right back. At one time you had written that you were thinking about getting a dog. Is that plan still in the works? Hey, I am a dog lover and owner of 3 dogs and there are no BAD dogs, just BAD owners.
Little D:)
 
Sandy, Feathered Hat and Little D,

Thanks -- I think Alex will bounce back after a couple of months. As for the family dog -- we're trying to figure out our living situation (trying to increase the number of days in NH and maybe selling the MA place), so thoughts about a possible dog have to be put on the back burner for a while.
 
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