Whiteface (a family finishes TOGETHER)

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mavs00

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We arrived at the Research Center parking lot (after spotting a car at Connery Pond) at just before 7:30AM on (9/5/04). When all was said and done, there were 13 of us. Five of us (my wife ADKatie, brother Dan, 13 y/o son Nick, 11 y/o Daughter Ashley and me) were hoping to bag #46 and become 46ers. The rest, Spencer (peak_bgr), Eric (his son), Brian (bushwhacker), Doug (Hillman1), Tom, Nathan, Leighanne and Diana (the “lurker” ;) ) just wanted to join the fun.

Off we went, quietly joking, laughing, chatting, and all-around having fun. We’d soon pitched right into the side of Marble Mt and went steeply up. Before long we’d reached the “lookout” and stared on down to Wilmington. It was a bit hazy, but the sun was shining above. We marched forward and as things often do when you’re having fun, we reached the cairn marking the trail to Esther before we knew it. We headed on over and within 40 minutes we stood at her plague. Me and my family took turns touching the plague and silently giving thanks to her spirit.

Before long, it was time to head out. Once we reached the cairn, we took a right turn and headed for our destiny. It became tough to hold Ashley back, she was getting pumped by this point. We (Ash, Nick and I) walked ahead a little bit and at a couple points, I stopped each of them and shared a private moment of reflection. I told them how much I loved them and how proud of them I was. I also thanked them for coming along on my journey with me. My son surprised me and said “thank you for coming along on MY journey too, Dad”.

After a near miss when my niece slipped in the mud, we marched on and made great time and arrived at the toll road area (just below the summit) at just after noon. Knowing we could not summit til 12:30, we hung out. The closest I got to a skit was this little moment. Just as we popped out by the stone wall, we bumped into some unsuspecting tourists. Since I sweat like a pig anyway and was soaked. I started huffing and puffing and asked them how they got there. They took the bait. I got a “the road”, “What the hell, there is a road here”. Then I said “Oh well, are we almost to the top of MARCY”. The guy got this real puzzled look on his face and in total seriousness, said “no, this road goes to the top of Whiteface”. So I rolled my eyes and turned around and headed back down the mountain. It was so immature, but god did I have fun doing it.

At the appointed hour, we headed back into the trees for the short jump up to the summit. In a few minutes, I saw a young boy scampering down towards our group. “Hey, I know that kid”. It was little Tom (masshysteria’s son, who we’d hiked Allen with a few weeks before). Then it hit me. Big Tom (masshysteria) had driven with his family, from thier home in MA, to meet us at the top. I was floored. This was a becoming a moment. As we approached the summit house, we could see tons of people, some of whom we recognized (my parents, Katie’s parents, other family, including the kids 93 y/o great-grandmother), and other who were just staring.

As we approached, the five of us joined hands and walked to the summit. The crowd literally moved aside and let us approach the sign without interference. We each touched the sign and once again became further linked forever, not only by our (very substantial) family bonds, but also by the bond of becoming mutual 46ers. It was a touch moving (for me anyway).

I was again moved a few minutes later, when out of the crowd, comes Bruce (AlpineSummit) and his wife Lynne (brand new 46er herself) bearing a tray of fruit (which was quickly devoured). Bruce, said he might come, but after all he had house guests, thrown a party the night before and was plenty busy himself. I’d not expected that he’d have been able to break away (and very understandably). He did, and brought his guests along with him. How cool it that. It was another of those really nice moments.

Well, we had a toast, (champagne magically appeared) and pretty much just loitered around for an hour and a half. Some took advantage of the $5 hot dogs available :rolleyes:, others just chilled (I chilled). We headed down in good time and reached Connery Pond by 5 PM. After that, we gathered at a place special to us for a bite to eat. We were delighted to later have Crazymama, Nancy (new 46er & NE115), ARM and Donna show up and help us celebrate with us.

Well, I've bored you long enough, but I wanted to share one other thing. In any long journey, there are sure to be a bounty of memories you'll hold forever, mine was no exception. One of the earliest stands out. I remember standing on top of Cascade in August of 1999. At the time, I was 50 lbs overweight, and way out of shape. As I stood, gazing out over the mountains, and holding onto my 6 y/o daughter’s hand. I half-joking said “Let’s climb them all Ash, wanna?”. She looked at me, as only a 6 year old can and said “okay daddy, we can climb them all”. Can you believe it, we actually did. I wonder if she remembers too?

ADKatie, thanks for introducing me to the mountains and changing my life forever (once again ;) ). I love you very much.

Peacedak, you're a free spirit hippie type, and I'm a not nearly so. I want to thank you for teaching me how to quiet my soul so that I was able to "hear the melody" of the deep Adirondack woods. I love you brother.

It started HERE, and ended here.
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Thanks to all of you for all the help you've given me over the last couple years. Special thanks to Spencer, Brian, Bruce, Tom & Doug. You guys have become great friends.
 
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That is an incredible story. Congratulations on your finish, and the journey and adventure that got you there! It was a pleasure to meet you at the BBQ a few weeks ago, and is now a thrill to see you as 46'ers.
:)
 
Great story Tim. Congratulations again to all 5 of you. Its impressive when an individual hikes all 46 peaks, but its AWESOME when an entire family does it together.

I really enjoyed being part of the celebration afterwards, just sorry I couldn't have been there for the hike itself. Enjoyed meeting ADKatie's family, and your brother Dan, and I couldn't believe you were serving steak and shrimp (delicious!). I loved looking through your album chronicling your family's entire 46er quest. Thanks again for inviting me to join in the fun.

Hope to join you all on a hike sometime in the future...

CM
 
Congratulations to you all!! Nice trip report, Tim. Grace would've loved it.
And now you're what, a little over half way there? Only 47, 48 to go? The only question is, where's the next celebration? Cheney Cobble?
Little Santanoni? Keep us posted!!!
JT
 
Tim, man, you really "get it". Keep having a great life. That is a great story and should inspire many to follow in your footsteps.

Congrats to you, Katie, Ash and Nick! Something tells me we'll soon be seeing some aspiring 111ers in the Whites!
 
Congrats to a new family of 46ers! Made me a bit weepy reading that report. Very moving!
 
Hiking as a family is a wonderful thing. The stories and memories will never fade. We finished the NH48 with my son when he was 12 and asked what he wanted to do to celebrate. He chose to go to Vermont to do the 4k's there! So we went and had a lovely week? They grow up so fast!

So what's next?
 
It was an unforgettable day. Thank you for letting me be a part of the celebration. Cangrats again.
 
My perspective...

Where do I start? Tim said it all great and he summed it up perfectly, but it feels like I should jump in too, and tell some of my highlights!

On the drive up on Friday night, Tim and the kids and I had some terrific conversations and shared memories about this journey. As we left our house, we said goodbye to our "pre-46er" life and all realized that things would somehow never be the same when we returned. In so many good ways...

I have noticed so many changes in my family since this began. For Nicholas, this sparked an obsession with climbing to the point of his now having a dream of climbing Everest one day. He never showed signs of losing interest and never lost faith that he would one day become a 46er. His conviction was a strong as mine, when Tim was so many mountains ahead of us, that we wanted to catch up and finish TOGETHER. For Nicholas and I, this was so important, and we both knew what we'd need to do to make it happen. And we did... In my eyes, he learned so much about respect for nature and these mountains that we cherish, and he's a better person for it. He is an asset to the 46ers and I'm so proud of him!

For Ashley, this had to have been a lesson in perseverence and "believing in yourself". She was SO young (6 years old), and these mountains are SO big, that many times she didn't think she'd be able to do it. I don't know if she really EVER knew, until sometime this summer, that she WAS going to accomplish this and she was stronger than even she knew. Even though it was so clear to us how strong a hiker she is and was, she didn't quite have the confidence in herself on each hike. At times she was on fire and there was no stopping her, but other times it was a struggle. Like me, she is a mental hiker. But look at her now! She is telling anyone and everyone what she has accomplished, and now I know that she DOES believe in herself and has grown so much in so many ways in those mountains. I'm so proud of HER!

For Tim, this was an evolving journey (in my eyes). It started with our family hiking a few mountains and challenging ourselves to try something a little harder each time. I watched Tim's momentum revving up and it was HE who began to reach out for those stars and he who initiated taking us out on the "hard ones". Just about this time, I fell off my horse (literally) and I think he felt the 46er quest was over for us as a family, as we were sidelined for one whole year. Upon our return to hiking, he was now fully ready for this journey for the 46, and it became an inner journey for him as well. I'm not sure he knew if I'd fully recover the knee injury and be able to continue, but with his drive and determination, he turned into a hiking machine, a true "peak bagger"! Comparing to my 5 high peaks climbed that year, he climbed 14! I remember the day last year, when we were hiking the Seward Range in September that the 5 of us decided we were going to do whatever we needed to finish together on Labor Day weekend of this year. That was the day I realized Tim's journey had evolved yet again and he realized this was a journey that would mean so much more when completed as a family. He assured me that he would spend the beginning part of this summer helping me and the kids "catch up" and he was true to his word. While I was hiking 19 new peaks, he was repeating several, and proving to me what a sacrifice he would make for us. And this past Sunday, when we paused just below the summit of Whiteface to get into formation and clasp hands, Tim embraced each of us and told us how much he loved us. At that moment I was never more glad that I pushed for a family finish. In my heart I always knew it would be so special, and it didn't disappoint! Thank you, Tim for "waiting" for us! I am so proud of YOU!

For Dan this was a lesson I learned about me, rather than about him. He taught me to look more and listen more. To see more than the trees and the views and the trails. To hear more than the brooks and the birds and the wind. He taught me to look beyond all that and really FEEL and sense what those mountains have to give. His "mojo" out there saved me more times than I care to remember. Thank you for that, and for all you sacrificed to catch up with us last week and join us in finishing Sunday. I am so proud of YOU!

As for me, I learned what tenacity means. I learned about overcoming obstacles and "bucking up". I know I certainly did not always look my best out there and I had many of my share of "hiking ugly" days where I questioned why I was doing this. But never (with the exception of Giant) did I question my ability to finish the day alive. I always knew that, no matter how much pain I was in, I'd be able to walk myself back to the car and hopefully still have my feet. There was pain, there were tears, blood, bruises, a broken bone, and while many give a puzzled look at my explanation of my desire to get back out there, I had enough GOOD days and great memories and experiences to keep me going. That's what it's all about for me. I always believed that, "if you don't do it, you'll never know what you might have missed if you HAD done it".

I'd have missed a hell of a lot.

Thanks, guys! I love you all!

And no, this is by no means over. If it's higher than where I stand now, I will climb it. I still want to pull the car over and climb that hill. And I will.

BTW, I've decided, it's the firetowers I'm after next...
 
congrats!

thanks to both of you for sharing your accomplishment with all of us!

imagine what the kids are gonna write for their 'what I did over the summer vacation", eh?

:D
 
I put into words how I felt about Sunday in your website, so I won't rehash it here. Suffice it to say, the sight of the five of you walking hand-in-hand to the summit sign was remarkable. I hope you have pictures of that on the site.

You are a great bunch of people, and it has truly been a pleasure and an honor to have hiked with you. I will see you in the woods!

Good luck and God bless!

Tom
 
I would like to thank your family for inviting me along. When you guys crossed that last rock for the sign, I have to admit to getting a bit teary eyed. It brought back a lot of memories of my father, who doesn't get to hike anymore. I can't wait to hear the Everest trip report. Congrats, and the bar-b-que was incredible. The best after hike celebration ever.
 
Jordan and I want to also congratulate you and your family, he really enjoyed hiking with your kids, maybe one day again in the future!
 
46 skidoo

Tim and Katie - great reports. I can feel the emotion. Seeing family and friends at the top to just be with you at that special moment must have been a tremendous feeling. Maybe we can do some fire tower peaks together... I've only got maybe one more canoe trip that I want to do this year, then I'm open to suggestions for hikes (at least until the first day of WINTER - then I start over). If everyone on this forum who finished the 46 this year shows up at the Spring 46-R meeting, we'll have a great time. I hope that you folks can get away from your obligations to be there. Way to go! -ALGonquin Bob
 
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