Carmel said:FYI, there is not ONE LEGITIMATE, WELL RUN CHARITY anyone could possibly mention that darren does NOT support. That is an asinine statement...or perhaps maybe you were miscommunicating. Yes, none of us can choose to financially support ALL charities, but how can you criticize ANY LEGITIMATE, WELL RUN charity? That is some BAD juju right there.
We've all made friends thru this site first and then ROT (and most of the people there met thru this site i'm sure) and you don't pay a dime for either of them. Most importantly you can't put a price tag to the friendships and the experiences that have come out of this site. I am soooo happy that I have met everyone that i've met, it is such a great bunch of people, even if we all don't see eye to eye on everything, that's what makes us human. Even those of us that don't think we'd get along from reading posts, when it comes down to, if we were face to face, we'd be social and probably really enjoy the company.
Darren has eaten around $8,000-$10,000 since the creation of the site, and all he asks is that people donate to the BTS. Anyways, I believe that your post was rather thoughtless, I don't understand why someone would try to turn something good into such negativity. I don't believe the sarcasm above was appropriate or warranted.
ALL CHARITY PARTICIPANTS: We get PMs and can contact our friends that are members thru email, you have the right to use email and PMs to send any sort of charity messages that you choose. As a matter of fact, I just got an email from Bunchberry thru VFTT who wanted my mailing address so she could send us the form to support her for a charity. Without posting on the forum, she got a check in the mail (well, i hope you got it Bunch) from Darren and I. She was still able to use the site for charitable purposes although it was banned from the public board.
Remove all the fluff (ie. the social intercourse, jokes, bantering, joshing, friendly intercourse and what have you left? A very arid and lonely place.Peakbagr said:Thats what makes horse racing. INFORMATION is what holds this community together.
Grumpy said:What constitutes (or doesn't make) Fluff, I think, is in the eye of the beholder.
One common working definition seems to be, "if it's not what happens to interest me, then it is Fluff."
Using that definition, all the "list" and peakbagging obsessive threads here are Fluff, in my opinion. Likewise, anything that pertains to overnight backpacking now constitutes Fluff, for me, since I've become exclusively a dayhiker.
On the other hand, any thread dealing with post-hike refreshments, especially of the adult liquid variety, is anything but Fluff, to me. That's real (to mix a metaphor) meat-and-potatoes stuff, based on my own impulses and interests.
My Fluff-non-Fluff list provided above is far from exhaustive. I do have interests that reach beyond quaffing adult beverages. It's necessary to explain that because I don't want anybody to get a wrong impression or reach an erroneous conclusion ...
G.
Why don't you start your own? They're have been lots of horror stories threads. In fact, some have been truly disgusting.sleeping bear said:... I was just bummed because I wanted to read (and add to) the "horror stories" thread.
"Thats what makes horse racing. INFORMATION is what holds this community together."
David Metsky said:I think that's a bit more strict than was intended. This site celebrates all sorts of activities in the outdoors: bushwacks to viewless peaks, skiing a remote wooded glade, explorations by kayak of ponds and streams, fishing, photography, XC tours on old woods roads, mountain biking, camping, ice climbing, rock climbing, geocaching, short rambles with children, they're all part of the mix. IMO, "the Top" isn't a physical summit, it's more philosophical, a metaphor for getting out to where ever you want to be. Along the way we talk about gear, experiences, hardships, adventures, history, food, good times, silly times, group gatherings, music, and science.
I think it's good that we have few hard and fast rules. The site is too dynamic to try and nail things down like that. There's a quote from Dr Who (to bring in some fluff) that I think sums up my philosophy here:
-Chicken Boy-
cbcbd said:XXX City beer Night? Count me in. The more Xs the better.
Or that they don't.Ed 'n Duffy said:2810 hits in four days? I'd say that that's proof in itself that a lot of folks out there like fluff.
That is only 1 hit every 2 minutes. It might just be a small number of people obsessively rereading the thread...Ed 'n Duffy said:2810 hits in four days? I'd say that that's proof in itself that a lot of folks out there like fluff.
Tony,I like the way you think!amstony said:I think its time for more Nashua and Boston beer nights!!