1) Parking is a challenge not only in the Whites but in the ADK's also, even for Bear or Monadnock. That may be one of the reasons why I like to solo, I can get up at some silly time and get to a trailhead before others arrive or go late in the day for a sunset when many have left. Getting teens up early...... 2) Major trails are crowded. In many cases, that's how they got to be major trails. My son may or may not have his final year of Scout Camp. If they cancel it, I'm thinking we travel to see my brother in SC or we do a couple of days backpacking, thinking of someplace near where I've been a lot but not on the usual trails. I'd say where but most of us know these places & why would I advertise it. 3) Back country shelters and tent sites are invariably full early; Do we need more? If the outdoors was being ignored Vs. loved to death, we'd have more TP right but fewer trees.
4) There's a perception of a 'right' way to do everything in the woods; Even now, I don't have time to read what some perceived expert believes is the right way to do things. 5) LNT has always been important, ten years ago you did not have to worry about anyone seeing or it being brought up in the internet. (Well, there was this one time here over 20 years ago but I'm not telling on the board, you can PM me if you want to know) 6) EVERYTHING has been done. Who lives for what everyone else has done or seen. Who cares what someone else did or went. Hence the mantra, hike your own hike.
I've been blessed/cursed to love planning trips, several I've never been able to come close to do doing. At one point over 20 years ago I bought a Pigsah National Forest map for NC. I looked at it and forgot about until my brother, the bike racer mentioned he wanted to do some hiking and backpacking. Maybe in a few years I'll get to use that NM Gazetteer I bought in 2002. I also planned a two week trip in CA & OR in 2004 that never happened.
Some of the things that I would say I could put on the "I did this list" shouldn't have been done in the first place. 22 hours to Katahdin and back from Manchester, CT was one, doing Leconte during the time T.S. Dennis was going through the area was another dumb thing. Seeing sunrise over Half Dome from Sentinel Dome or Sunset at the Grand Canyon were amazing even if they involved only a short hike to one and no real hiking at the other. Seeing the sun reflect off the Atlantic from Bond one day & seeing the snowy caps of the Presidentials on very clear winter days from Monadnock. I don't hike in VT often but the ability to see NH and the ADK peaks at the same time, well, turning around, never gets old having spent a bunch of time in both places. It's nice even seeing the Catskills from Bear, Race or Everett.
Solo ascending Zugspitze was neat, solo descending it and while descending learning the German word for glacier and the difference between the trails in the Reintal and Hollental valleys. Reintal, very nice, Hollental, nerve racking
Funny story, with my son in scouts, sharing the outdoors with others, especially kids who normally wouldn't go without scouts. One of the boys on a camp out at Monadnock was moaning and groaning all the way up on why are we doing this, after all, we are just going back to camp. However, once he reached the top and saw the view, he said, "oh, that's why we do this". Thankfully it wasn't raining or fogged in. (We probably wouldn't have gone out of the trees had it been raining) Seeing others do stuff they normally wouldn't do is very rewarding. Also trying to rewrite my own opinion on scout groups as prior to having children, some of the dumbest things I saw were people who got split up from scout groups.
The other thing I've done twice now is a 61 mile canoe rides down the Allagash, it's been the best scout trip I've been on & one of the best, probably the best experience with my son as you spend so much time in the boat. If we go next year, hopefully we will, I'll get to see him with another teenager in his boat, he's earned the challenge of being the senior person in a canoe. (He'll be paired with a stronger paddler while I'll get a near novice again.)
One thing I haven't done yet as an adventure and I don't plan too, Some people have told stories of having to crawl to a summit because of the wind being so strong, thanks but no thanks. One I won't do again although it was fun at the time is making Dave M. traverse the Bonds in the rain. (It wasn't raining at the beginning mile
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