How they react and possibly rationalize only reflects on them and not the facts.
This is true to a point. Presentation also counts. If your style is more in-your-face, or more confrontational, or more preachy, you're going to get more of the knee-jerk reaction. If your style is more inclusive ("we") or example-based, it is more thought-provoking and less knee-jerking.
If you asked a question, or made some point, and got an answer, or a response, and then reacted dismissively, reactions will tend towards knee-jerking. If you re-ask or re-make the point, you really can't expect anyone to play along, unless they are doing so for sport.
I base these observations on both my reactions and watching all your reactions, along with the (as you might imagine) personal messaging, and reporting of posts, that I and the other moderators are keeping tabs on. Rather than closing it when it gets close to going off the rails, I have resorted to the personal messages and having people edit their posts.
You may disagree with me and that's fine, but this is what I'm seeing and hearing from my seat.
Tim
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