This is a fantastic thread!
A few thoughts...
We ALL die, but very few choose their own death. I am another who "doesn't want to go on the cart" (Montey Python rules!), but that is out of my control. What's IN my control is living and experiencing all I can, while I can. We do not take any physical items with us when we pass on, but I am banking on taking as much "experience baggage" as I can gather... (just ask my wife!)
I also don't ever want to be a burdon to anyone, so I hope to never die either on a mountain or in a nursing home... but such as life, we don't always get to choose our destiny...