Grumpy
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After considerable reflection on these “etiquette” issues, it seems to me that someone else raising a complaint about or “questioning” things I do is a signal that I ought to evaluate my own behavior.
By evaluate, I mean rather than shallowly considering it from the perspective of suiting my own convenience and satisfying pursuit of my own special pleasures, I should look at how my behavior affects the other guy’s convenience and pleasure-seeking, and perhaps safety, too. That’s the courtesy I hope the other guy will extend to me; I ought to be willing and ready to extend it myself.
This comes from a guy who has made his share of postholes. My bad. I have been more careful in recent years, since seeing the issue raised here on VFTT, and will continue to behave that way. My promise.
So, having confessed to being a wickedly offensive postholer once upon a time, and having boasted of my reformation, let me add a few words about glissading and butt-sliding on trails.
I don’t really have problems with the “damage” such activities might wreak on trail surface “texture.” But while ascending a narrow trail I do object to meeting some Yahoo careening at me in an all but uncontrolled sliding descent. Then the slider-glider’s behavior has a very direct (perhaps literal) impact on my enjoyment of the trail and my personal safety. That’s when I definitely will say “ouch!”
Some of this applies to non- snow and ice months, too.
G.
By evaluate, I mean rather than shallowly considering it from the perspective of suiting my own convenience and satisfying pursuit of my own special pleasures, I should look at how my behavior affects the other guy’s convenience and pleasure-seeking, and perhaps safety, too. That’s the courtesy I hope the other guy will extend to me; I ought to be willing and ready to extend it myself.
This comes from a guy who has made his share of postholes. My bad. I have been more careful in recent years, since seeing the issue raised here on VFTT, and will continue to behave that way. My promise.
So, having confessed to being a wickedly offensive postholer once upon a time, and having boasted of my reformation, let me add a few words about glissading and butt-sliding on trails.
I don’t really have problems with the “damage” such activities might wreak on trail surface “texture.” But while ascending a narrow trail I do object to meeting some Yahoo careening at me in an all but uncontrolled sliding descent. Then the slider-glider’s behavior has a very direct (perhaps literal) impact on my enjoyment of the trail and my personal safety. That’s when I definitely will say “ouch!”
Some of this applies to non- snow and ice months, too.
G.
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